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Contents

  • Essentials
    • What's New
      • What's New
      • A World Without Limits
    • Creating A Sim
      • A New You
      • Personality
      • Family and Aging
      • Making Catherine Browne
    • Creating a House
      • Creating a House
      • Building Basics
      • Buying a Lot
      • Build Mode
      • Furnished Lots and Pre-Set Lives
      • Households
      • Cheat Sheet
    • A Day in the Life
      • The Essentials
      • Wishes
      • Skills
      • Careers
      • Mood Maintenance
      • Relationships and Socializing
      • Meet the Brownes
      • Getting Settled
      • Making the Most
      • Keep On Keepin’ On
    • Traits
      • Traits
    • Moods
      • Mood
      • Moodlets
      • Positive Moodlets
      • Neutral Moodlets
      • Negative Moodlets
    • Wishes
      • Wishes
      • Lifetime Wishes
      • Wishes List
      • Lifetime Happiness Points
    • Skills
      • Skills
      • Athletic
      • Charisma
      • Cooking
      • Fishing
      • Gardening
      • Guitar
      • Handiness
      • Logic
      • Painting
      • Writing
    • Careers
      • Careers
      • Business
      • Criminal
      • Culinary
      • Journalism
      • Law Enforcement
      • Medical
      • Military
      • Music
      • Politics
      • Professional Sports
      • Science
      • Part-time Work
      • School
    • Opportunities
      • Opportunities
      • Skills Opportunities
      • Careers Opportunities
    • Relationships and Aging
      • Relationships
      • Friendships (and Enemies)
      • Romance
      • Socializing
      • Family and Aging
      • Having a Family
      • Death
      • Service Sims
    • Tour of Sunset Valley
      • City Life
      • Places of Employment
      • Shopping and Commerce
      • Community Spots
      • Fishing Spots
      • Places to Go Collecting
    • Design Corner
      • Truly Custom Content
      • Winsome Farmhouse
      • Le Grand Palace
      • FoxGlen Manor
      • The Cherry Tree Houses
      • Richmond Manor
    • Object Catalog
      • Object Catalog
      • Living Room
      • Kitchen
      • Dining Room
      • Bedroom
      • Bathroom
      • Study
      • Kids’ Room
      • Multi-Room Objects
      • Outdoors and Landscaping
      • Object Interactions
    • Community
      • Sharing with the World

The Sims 3 Guide › Essentials › A Day in the Life

Wishes

The Wishes panel

As soon as your Sims arrive at their new lot, they start expressing wishes to you via the Wish panel at the bottom of the screen. In addition to their Lifetime Wish, Sims can have up to four active wishes awaiting fulfillment. When a Sim has a new wish, it appears in the arched bubble on top of the Wish panel.

To promise a wish and add it to your Sims active wishes, left-click on the wish. To deny a wish, right-click on it. There is no punishment for denying a wish. Your Sim will just forget about it. That doesn’t necessarily mean a new wish will take its place right away. You may have to wait a while before your Sim conceives of a new wish

Caution

You cannot undo a wish denial, so think before you right-click on that little dream.

Incoming wishes can stack up without penalty. Use arrows to cycle through your Sim’s wishes before committing to them or denying them.

Tip

Exploring Sunset Valley and talking to other Sims often results in your Sim coming up with new wishes.

To learn more about a wish, just move the cursor on top of it. The full details of the wish appear in a box.

The box explains what the wish is, what needs to happen to fulfill the wish (you can sometimes get hints here), and how many Lifetime Happiness points the wish is worth once fulfilled. Wishes with loftier or more time consuming goals are worth more Lifetime Happiness points

.For example, with the Chat With Sim wish is worth 150 points, the slightly more time-consuming Read 3 Books wish is worth 900 points. The monumental Have First Child wish banks 6,000 Lifetime Happiness points, but that wish sends your life on an entirely new course.

Wishes include activities such as:

Chatting with a specific Sim

Kissing a Sim your Sim is interested in

Taking a class

Raising a skill level

Buying a specific object

Starting a new career

Getting a promotion at a current career

Banking a specific amount of Simoleons

Throwing a party

Going to a community location

Going to an event at a location

Once you have added a wish to the Wish panel, it stays there until you either fulfill it or throw it away. You throw a wish away with a quick right-click, and there is zero penalty

Some wishes are directly related to your Lifetime Wish. These wishes appear with a starburst behind them, indicating that you should definitely consider prioritizing them once promised. Fulfilling these wishes will get you closer to your Sim’s overall goal in life.

Wishes are not universal across age groups. Sims of differing ages will want different things. A child will never have a desire to join a specific career track, but instead want to be talked to, played with, or receive a new object like a toy.

Teen Sims start to mingle wishes with young adult and adult Sims, although you will see slight variations on wishes—many are socially-oriented, too. Because Sims can undergo personality changes as they age, some wishes do not survive the move between age groups. The desire to have a baby will disappear when your adult Sim moves into the elderly age bracket.

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