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The Sims 3 Encyclopedia eGuide Essentials Traits, Moodlets & Socials

Socials

The Sims 3

The following charts detail all of the Actor-Target socials you can perform in a conversation.

Social Commodity Actor Age Target Age Social Available When? Required Trait Social Encouraged By Trait? Social Prevented By Trait? # of Uses
Before Boring
# of Uses if Recharged
Accuse of Being a Crybaby Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Loser Mean-Spirited Good
Accuse of Being a Crybaby Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Loser Mean Spirited Good
Accuse of Being a Workaholic Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Workaholic Family-Oriented
Accuse of Being Boring Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target has No Sense of Humor Mean Spirited Good
Accuse of Being Childish Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Childish Dislikes Children, Mean Spirited Good
Accuse of Being Evil Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Evil Good
Accuse of Being Insane Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Insane Mean Spirited Good
Accuse of Being Unflirty Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Unflirty Flirty Unflirty
Accuse of Cheating Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor has had Jealousy triggered on Target Neurotic, Hopeless Romantic 1 1
Accuse of Mean Spiritedness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Mean Spirited Good, Friendly
Admire Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC and are Friends or above or on the romantic relationship Easily Impressed, Schmoozer, Charismatic
Amorous Hug Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Seductive STC or Flirty STC, if not Acquaintances Hopeless Romantic 1
Announce Birthday Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E It is the Actor's birthday Excitable
Announce Engagement Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has become engaged Family-Oriented, Hopeless Romantic, Excitable
Announce Pregnancy Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has become pregnant Family-Oriented, Excitable
Announce Promotion Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has gotten a promotion Snob, Workaholic, Excitable
Apologize Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in a negative STC Friendly, Schmoozer 1 1
Applaud Hard Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Workaholic Workaholic, Schmoozer
Applaud Vegetarianism Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Vegetarian Vegetarian, Schmoozer
Argue Insulting C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor thinks the Target is being impolite or unforgivably rude or Sims are in Insulting STC Hot-Headed, Mean Spirited, Grumpy, Insane 4
Ask About Antisocial Acton Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has performed an antisocial action Good
Ask About Bath Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor and Target are in a committed relationship and Target has had a bath
Ask About Day Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Friendly, Good, Charismatic, Schmoozer 1 1
Ask About Game Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has played a game
Ask About Missing Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has the Missing Work buff Workaholic, Neurotic
Ask About News Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has read the newspaper Genius
Ask About Occupation Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor does not know the Target's career Workaholic, Schmoozer, Ambitious
Ask About Partner Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor does not know the Target's relationship status Family-Oriented, Flirty, Hopeless Romantic
Ask About School Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target goes to school Workaholic, Family-Oriented, Ambitious
Ask About Sleep Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has slept Heavy Sleeper, Light Sleeper
Ask About Work Friendly C, T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Always available Workaholic, Ambitious, Schmoozer
Ask Are You OK Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has the Too Many People, Horrified, Singed, Lonely, Afraid of the Dark, or Humiliated buff Good, Friendly Evil, Mean Spirited
Ask for a Promotion Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is Actor's Boss (and it's been 3 days since the Boss was last asked) Ambitious 1
Ask for a Raise Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is Actor's Boss (and it's been 5 days since the Boss was last asked) Ambitious 1
Ask Good Book Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has read a book Bookworm
Ask for Campaign Donation Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Can ask for campaign donations Schmoozer 1 3
Ask NPC to Stay Over Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is visiting the Actor at home 1
Ask NPC to Stay Over Romantically Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is visiting the Actor at home Flirty 1 1
Ask to Behave Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When in the Very Friendly STC and the Sims have at least 60 LTR Good
Ask to Break Up With Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Wedding Canceled 1 1
Ask to Go Inside Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor requests Target follow them inside 1
Ask to Hang Out Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is a Service NPC on the job 1
Ask to Leave Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sim asks Target to leave lot
Ask Everyone to Leave Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sim asks all Targets to leave lot Loner
Ask to Move In Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC and are Friends or above or on the romantic relationship 1 3
Ask to Stay Over Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is visiting the Target at home 1
Ask to Stay Over Romantically Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is visiting the Target at home Flirty 1 1
Ask: Good show? Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has watched TV Couch Potato Technophobe
AskAboutFish Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has fished or Actor is Insane Angler, Loves the Outdoors, Insane
Baby Play With Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a baby Family-Oriented
Baby Toddler Snuggle Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a baby Family-Oriented
Beg for Job Back Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is Actor's Boss and Actor quit work Workaholic, Loser 1 1
Best Friends Forever Friendly T T Sims are teens, Best Friends, or Old Friends, and in the Very Friendly STC 1
Birthday Congratulations Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E It is the Target's birthday Family-Oriented, Friendly, Schmoozer
Boast About Athleticism Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor acquired Athletic skill Athletic, Snob 1
Boast About Bicycle Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Snob who owns a bicycle Snob Snob 1
Boast About Car Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Snob who owns a car Snob Snob 1
Boast About Computer Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Computer Whiz who improved their computer Computer Whiz Computer Whiz, Snob 1
Boast About Culinary Prowess Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor acquired Cooking skill Natural Cook, Snob 1
Boast About Dancing Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is dancing Party Animal, Snob 1
Boast About Finally Winning Something! Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Loser who won Loser Loser 1
Boast About Fishing Feats Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor acquired Fishing skill Angler, Snob 1
Boast About Gardening Glory Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor acquired Gardening skill Green Thumb, Snob 1
Boast About Party Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor threw a party Party Animal, Snob 1
Boast About Pool Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Snob who has a pool Snob Snob 1
Boast About Reviving Plant Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor revived a plant Green Thumb, Snob 1
Bore to Death Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has No Sense of Humor or Target thinks the Actor is being very boring No Sense of Humor 1
Brag About Being a Doctor Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is in the Medical career Ambitious, Snob 1
Break Up Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor and Target are in a committed relationship but not married Commitment Issues
Brighten Day Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Good Good Good
Calm Down Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has the Betrayed, Can't Stand Art, Offended, Rude Awakening, Rude Guest, or Stuff Taken buff Good, Friendly, Charismatic Mean Spirited, Evil
Cancel Wedding Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Available on engaged Sim Commitment Issues
Charming Introduction Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has Charisma skill Charismatic, Schmoozer
Chat Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Schmoozer, Charismatic 4 6
Cheer Up Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has the Heart Broken, Mourning, or Rejected buff Good, Friendly 3
Complain About All the People Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor had the Too Many People buff or is a Loner Loner Loner, Grumpy 1
Complain About Art Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor Can't Stand Art, knows the Target is Artistic or recently visited an Art Gallery Can't Stand Art, Grumpy 1
Complain About Baby Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Crying Baby buff Dislikes Children, Grumpy Family-Oriented 1
Complain About Being a Loser Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Loser who lost Loser Loser, Grumpy 1
Complain About Being a Slob Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Slob Neat, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy 1
Complain About Children Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor Dislikes Children Dislikes Children Dislikes Children, Grumpy 1
Complain About Darkness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Scared of the Dark Coward Coward, Grumpy 1
Complain About Exercise Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor recently visited the gym or is a Couch Potato and recently exercised Couch Potato Couch Potato, Grumpy 1
Complain About Foolish Joke Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has No Sense of Humor and humor was attempted No Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor, Grumpy 1
Complain About Good People Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Good Evil, Mean Spirited, Grumpy Good 1
Complain About Inappropriateness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Inappropriate Good, Grumpy Inappropriate 1
Complain About Laziness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Couch Potato Athletic, Grumpy Couch Potato 1
Complain About Meat Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is disgusted by meat Vegetarian Vegetarian, Grumpy 1
Complain About Mess Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is disgusted by mess Neat Neat, Grumpy 1
Complain About Other Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is annoyed with a third party Inappropriate, Mean Spirited, Grumpy 1
Complain About Other's Stench Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has the Stinky buff Neat, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy Slob 1
Complain About Being Woken Up Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor was woken up Heavy Sleeper, Light Sleeper, Grumpy 1
Complain About Broken Bathtub Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Broken bathtub Neat, Perfectionist, Grumpy 1
Complain About Broken Toilet Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Broken toilet Neat, Perfectionist, Grumpy 1
Complain About Dirty Bathtub Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Dirty bathtub Neat, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy 1
Complain About Dirty Dishes Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Dirty dishes Neat, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy 1
Complain About Dirty Toilet Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Dirty toilet Neat, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy 1
Complain About Feeling Sore Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has the Sore buff Couch Potato, Grumpy 1
Complain About Outdoors Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Hates Outdoors trait and is outdoors Hates the Outdoors Hates the Outdoors, Grumpy 1
Complain About Party Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is preparing for or recently had a party Loner, Grumpy Party Animal 1
Complain About Politicians Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Political career Insane, Grumpy 1
Complain About School Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor can complain about school Couch Potato, Party Animal, Grumpy 1
Complain About the Police Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Law Enforcement career Evil, Inappropriate, Grumpy 1
Complain About TV Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Technophobe and the TV is on Technophobe Technophobe, Grumpy 1
Complain About TV Being Turned Off Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is not Technophobe and the TV was turned off Couch Potato, Grumpy Technophobe 1
Complain About Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Fired or Overworked buff, just got home from work, or can complain about work Grumpy Workaholic 1
Compliment Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC and are below Friends Charismatic, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Appearance Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available and Target's outfit changed or Sims are not in the Seductive or Hot STC Charismatic, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed, Flirty 3
Compliment Athleticism Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target did something athletic Athletic, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed, Flirty 3
Compliment Braveness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target did something brave Coward, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Cleverness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Genius Genius, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Cooking Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has made food Natural Cook, Family-Oriented, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Dancing Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is dancing Party Animal, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Garden Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor can compliment garden Green Thumb, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed Hates the Outdoors 3
Compliment Handiness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has repaired something Handy, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Home Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is visiting the Target at home Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Music Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has performed music Virtuoso, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Party Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is attending or recently attended a party Party Animal, Schmoozer, Easily Impressed 3
Compliment Personality Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available, Sims are not in the Seductive or Hot STC and don't dislike each other or aren't currently engaged/married Schmoozer, Easily Impressed, Flirty 3
Confess Cheating Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has had Jealousy triggered on Actor Good, Family-Oriented
Confess Attraction Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available, Sims are not in the Seductive or Hot STC and don't dislike each other or already romantic Hopeless Romantic, Flirty 1 1
Confess Attraction for Another Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is attracted to a third party Hopeless Romantic
Confess to Being Fired Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Fired buff
Console Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is having a bad day, or has the Scared, Heart Broken, Mourning, or Rejected buff Good, Family-Oriented, Friendly Mean Spirited
Coo Over Children Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Family-Oriented Family-Oriented Family-Oriented
Criticize His Family Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Mean Spirited or Inappropriate or is being Insulting to the Target who is in a committed relationship with them Mean Spirited, Inappropriate Mean Spirited, Inappropriate 1
Criticize Lousy Book Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are responding to a book Bookworm, Perfectionist, Snob, Grumpy 1
Cry on Shoulder Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Heart Broken, Mourning, or Rejected buff Over Emotional
Cuddle Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Can try on Sim Hopeless Romantic 1 1
Debate Politics Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor or Target is in the Political career Schmoozer, Charismatic 3
Declare Nemesis Steamed T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Steamed STC Evil, Mean Spirited, Hot-Headed
Deep Conversation Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC and are Good Friends or above or in a committed relationship Genius 3 4
Deliver Opportunity Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E An opportunity needs to be delivered
Determine Gender of Baby Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is pregnant
Disapprove of Criminals Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Criminal career Good Evil 1
Discuss Favorite TV Shows Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E TV is on Couch Potato, Charismatic Technophobe 3
Discuss Fine Cuisine Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Respond to the Hunger buff Natural Cook, Snob 3
Discuss Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Workaholic or is talking to a co-worker Workaholic, Ambitious
Dismiss Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a Service NPC on the job
Dismiss Rudely Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a Service NPC on the job Mean Spirited Good
Divorce Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor and Target are married Commitment Issues
Embrace Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are in the Hot STC or Seductive STC if the Sims are in a romantic relationship or are exes Hopeless Romantic, Flirty 1 1
End Service Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a Service NPC on the job and the Sims are Friends or higher Frugal
Enthuse About Business Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Business career Excitable
Enthuse About Cooking Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Culinary career Natural Cook, Excitable
Enthuse About Exercise Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor recently visited the gym or is Athletic and recently exercised or knows the Target is Athletic Athletic, Excitable Couch Potato
Enthuse About Fishing Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is an Angler or knows the Target is an Angler Angler, Excitable
Enthuse About Journalism Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Journalism career Excitable
Enthuse About Law Enforcement Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Law Enforcement career Excitable
Enthuse About Music Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Virtuoso or learns the Target is in the Music career Virtuoso, Excitable
Enthuse About New House Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor or Target has a new house Excitable
Enthuse About Outdoors Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor Loves the Outdoors Loves the Outdoors, Excitable Hates the Outdoors
Enthuse About Party Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is preparing for a party Party Animal, Excitable
Enthuse About Politics Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Political career Excitable
Enthuse About Science Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Science career Excitable
Enthuse About the Military Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Military career Excitable
Enthuse About Wedding Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is at their wedding party Hopeless Romantic, Family-Oriented, Excitable Commitment Issues
Enthuse About Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has gotten home from work Workaholic, Excitable
Express Condolences Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is at a Funeral Good, Friendly
Express Condolences to Victim Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor knows Target has been cheated on Family-Oriented, Hopeless Romantic
Express Embarrassment Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has the Embarrassed buff or a conversation has turned Awkward 1
Express Fear of Graveyards Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Creepy Graveyard buff Coward, Neurotic Brave 1
Express Fear of Swimming Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Hydrophobic Hydrophobic Hydrophobic 1
Express Fear of the Dark Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Afraid of the Dark buff Coward, Neurotic Brave 1
Express Fondness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC and are Friends or above or in a romantic relationship Friendly
Express Humiliation Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Humiliated buff 1
Express Need for Exercise Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Athletic Athletic 1
Express Sympathy for Victim Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor knows a third party has been cheated on Family-Oriented, Hopeless Romantic
Family Hug Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Family-Oriented Family-Oriented
Feel Tummy Friendly C, T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is pregnant Family-Oriented 1
Fight! Steamed T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Betrayed, Can't Stand Art, Offended, Rude Awakening, Rude Guest, or Stuff Taken buff, or Sims are in the Steamed STC Mean Spirited, Hot-Headed, Evil Good
Fire Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a Service NPC on the job and the Sims are not Friends or higher Mean Spirited
First Kiss Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Seductive or Hot context and have not kissed Great Kisser 1
Flatter Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a Schmoozer Schmoozer Schmoozer 3
Flirt Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available Flirty, Hopeless Romantic Unflirty 3
Flirty Joke Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available but not too hot Good Sense of Humor, Flirty Unflirty 3
Fret Over Commitment Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor has made a commitment Commitment Issues Commitment Issues
Friendly Hug Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are Friends or above Friendly
Gaze Into Eyes Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Seductive STC and Actor is a Hopeless Romantic Hopeless Romantic Hopeless Romantic
Get Married Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is at their wedding party Hopeless Romantic, Family-Oriented 1 3
Give Inspirational Speech Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor can give an inspirational speech Charismatic
Give Medical Advice Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is pregnant Genius
Goodbye Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available to end conversation
Goodbye Hug Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E End conversation with friendly commodity
Goodbye Kiss Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E End conversation with amorous commodity
Goodbye Rude Insulting C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E End conversation with insulting commodity Mean Spirited Good
Goof Around Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Funny or Hilarious STC Childish, Good Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor
Gossip Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Snob
Gossip About Other Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor can talk about third party Mean Spirited, Snob
Greet Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Friendly
Greet Amusing Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 2–5 Good Sense of Humor, Charismatic
Greet Flirty Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 4–7 Flirty, Charismatic
Greet Friendly Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Friendly, Charismatic
Greet Funny Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 6–7 Good Sense of Humor, Charismatic
Greet Hilarious Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 8–10 Good Sense of Humor, Charismatic
Greet Hot Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 10 Flirty, Charismatic
Greet Insulting Insulting C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Start conversation with insulting commodity Mean Spirited Good
Greet Seductive Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor has Charisma Level 8–9 Flirty, Charismatic
Guitar Serenade Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has guitar skill Charismatic, Flirty 1 1
Have Private Wedding Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are engaged Family-Oriented, Hopeless Romantic 1 1
Hello Rude Insulting C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Start conversation with insulting commodity Mean Spirited Good
Hold Hands Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Romance is available but not too hot Hopeless Romantic
Impersonate Celebrity Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Hilarious STC Snob, Good Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor
Imply Mother is a Llama Insulting T, Y, A T, Y, A, E Actor is being insulting or unforgivably rude Inappropriate, Mean Spirited, Hot-Headed Good 1
I Named A Star After You Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor named a star after Target
Insult Insulting Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Wedding Canceled, Target is being creepy or frightening, or Actor is not being insulting or unforgivably rude Mean Spirited Good
Insult Bookworms Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows Target is a Bookworm Mean Spirited Good
Insult Home Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is visiting the Target at home Mean Spirited, Inappropriate Good
Interview Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is in the Journalism career
Invite In Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has Sims on front lawn of lot
Invite Everyone In Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has Sims on front lawn of lot
Invite Over Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is not on their home lot 1
Joke About Children Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is the Baby-sitter Dislikes Children
Joke About Cooking Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Culinary career Natural Cook, Good Sense of Humor
Joke About Criminals Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Criminal career Inappropriate, Evil, Good Sense of Humor
Joke About In-Laws Funny Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are engaged or married and are in the Hilarious STC Good Sense of Humor
Joke About Old Times Funny Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are engaged, married or Good Friends or higher and are in the Hilarious STC Good Sense of Humor 3
Joke About the Police Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Law Enforcement career Inappropriate, Evil, Good Sense of Humor
Joke About Work Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is talking to a co-worker Good Sense of Humor
Joke That He Can't Cook Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has made food Mean Spirited, Good Sense of Humor
Kiss Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Inappropriate or Sims have kissed Inappropriate, Great Kisser 1
Kiss on Cheek Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims have kissed and STC is not too hot Hopeless Romantic 1 3
Leap Into Arms Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are in the Hot STC Hopeless Romantic, Flirty 1 1
Lecture Teen Steamed Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a teen caught after curfew Family-Oriented
Let's Just Be Friends Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are Romantic Interests, Exes, or Ex Spouses
Listen to Tummy Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is pregnant Family-Oriented 1
Make Fun Of Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Inappropriate Inappropriate Inappropriate
Make Out Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Hot STC or Seductive STC if the Sims are in a committed relationship Great Kisser 1 1
Make Silly Face Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Always available Childish, Good Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor
Massage Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is responding to the Sore buff or Sims are in the Seductive STC Flirty 1 1
Mastermind Plot Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Evil Evil Evil
Mock Insulting C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is being odd Mean Spirited Good 1
Mock Ambition Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Ambitious Mean Spirited Ambitious, Good 1
Mock Appearance Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target's outfit changed Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Good 1
Mock Cleverness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Genius Mean Spirited Genius, Good 1
Mock Dancing Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is dancing Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Good 1
Mock Grumpiness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Grumpy Mean Spirited Grumpy, Good 1
Mock Hydrophobia Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is Hydrophobic Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Hydrophobic, Good 1
Mock Misfortune Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is responding to misfortune Evil, Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Good 1
Mock Musicians Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Music career Mean Spirited Virtuoso, Good 1
Mock Party Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is attending or recently attended a party Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Good 1
Mock Scientific Pretension Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Science career Mean Spirited Genius, Good 1
Mock Snobbishness Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Snob Mean Spirited Snob, Good 1
Mock Vegetarianism Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor knows the Target is a Vegetarian Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Vegetarian, Good 1
Mooch Food Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a Mooch Mooch Mooch 1
Mooch Money (Small) Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a Mooch Mooch Mooch 1
Mooch Money (Large) Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a Mooch Mooch Mooch 1
Patronize Insulting T, Y, A, E C Target is a Child and Sims are not in the Unforgivably Rude STC Dislikes Children, Mean Spirited Good
Persuade to Change Body Shape Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor suggests to Target to get healthier 1
Petty Jab Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Insulting or Unforgivably Rude STC Mean Spirited Good 1
Pick Up Line Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are Acquaintances and not in the Seductive or Hot STC Charismatic, Flirty Unflirty 1 3
Play Catch Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Childish Athletic, Loves the Outdoors, Childish
Play Tag Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Childish or Play topic is active Loves the Outdoors, Childish
Policeman Talk to Sim Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is a Policeman who needs to talk to the Target
Policeman Lecture Sim Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is a Policeman who needs to lecture to the Target
Policeman Express Disappointment Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is a Policeman who needs to express disappointment to the Target
Policeman Arrest Burglar Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is a Policeman who needs to arrest the Target burglar
Point Out Flaws Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is being insulting or unforgivably rude Perfectionist, Inappropriate, Mean Spirited Good 1
Praise Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is praiseworthy or Actor is a Schmoozer Schmoozer, Family-Oriented 3
Praise Fantastic Book Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are responding to a book Bookworm, Artistic, Easily Impressed
Praise Written Book Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has written a book Bookworm, Artistic, Easily Impressed
Propose Going Steady Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are Romantic Interests and in the Hot STC Hopeless Romantic 1 1
Propose Marriage Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is Inappropriate or Insane or Sims are Partners and in the Hot STC Inappropriate, Family-Oriented, Hopeless Romantic 1 1
Propose Truce Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are Enemies or Old Enemies and are in the Friendly or Very Friendly STC Good, Friendly
Question Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is in the Law Enforcement career
Quit Job Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is Actor's Boss Commitment Issues
Ramble Aimlessly Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is being boring No Sense of Humor 1
Refuse Entrance Insulting Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor wants to deny entry to Sims Mean Spirited Good
Regret Commitment Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor needs to turn down invitation Commitment Issues 1
Reminisce Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are BFFs, Old Friends, or Spouses and are in the Friendly or Very Friendly STC
Request Ask for Food Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has the Hunger buff or is pregnant
Request Clean Up Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Dirty bathtub, dishes, or toilet Neat
Request Do Your Homework Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Adult to child Family-Oriented
Request Feel My Tummy Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is pregnant Family-Oriented 1 3
Request Go to Bed Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target has the Tired buff Family-Oriented
Request Go to School Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Adult to child Family-Oriented
Request Practice Your Skills Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Adult to child Family-Oriented
Request Take Out the Trash Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Available on Sim when trash is full Neat
Return Stolen Object Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Available on Sim you stole object from Kleptomaniac Good
Reveal Secret Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are Best Friends or BFFs and are in the Friendly or Very Friendly STC 4
Salute Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Greeting for military career
Say Good Job Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has done homework Family-Oriented, Genius
Say You Look Scared Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has the Creepy Graveyard buff Good, Friendly
Say You Look Upset Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target has the Upset buff Good, Friendly
Set Burglar Free Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is a burglar Evil
Share Interests Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are Acquaintances Charismatic, Friendly 6
Share Trivia Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has No Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor No Sense of Humor 3 3
Share Worries Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Neurotic Neurotic 1
Shoo Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor needs to send Sims home
Sign Autograph Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Special interaction from autograph section
Slap Steamed T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has had Jealousy triggered on Target or Sims are in the Steamed STC Mean Spirited, Hot-Headed, Evil Good
Smooth Recovery Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has level 5 Charisma Charismatic, Schmoozer
Social Worker Yell At Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor wants to be angry with Social Worker NPC
Speak Highly of Other Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is at a Funeral Good, Friendly
Speak Madness Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Insane or is being creepy or frightening Insane 1 1
Speak Poorly of Other Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is at a Funeral or has had Jealousy triggered on a third party Mean Spirited, Inappropriate Good 1
Stroke Cheek Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Hot STC or Seductive STC if the Sims are in a romantic relationship or are exes Hopeless Romantic 1
Talk About Burglary Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor can talk about burglary 3
Talk About Fire Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor can talk about fire 3
Talk About Medicine Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor learns the Target is in the Medical career 3
Talk About Art Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Artistic, knows the Target is Artistic or recently visited an art gallery Artistic 3
Talk About Books Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Bookworm, knows the Target is a Bookworm or is visiting the library Bookworm 3
Talk About Celestial Object Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has Logic skill 3
Talk About Computers Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Computer Whiz, knows the Target is a Computer Whiz or recently used a computer Computer Whiz 3
Talk About Conspiracies Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Neurotic or Insane Insane, Neurotic 3
Talk About Cooking Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor or Target has cooked Natural Cook 3
Talk About Family Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Family-Oriented Family-Oriented 3
Talk About Gardening Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Green Thumb, knows the Target is a Green Thumb or acquired Gardening skill Green Thumb 3
Talk About Great Outdoors Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is visiting park, graveyard, or pool, or responding to a park visit Loves the Outdoors Hates the Outdoors 3
Talk About Movies Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E TV is on or Actor is visiting the theatre Couch Potato 3
Talk About My Possessions Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Snob Snob Snob 3
Talk About New Job Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has a new job Workaholic, Ambitious 3
Talk About Self Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Snob Snob Snob 3
Talk About Sim in Room Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Inappropriate Inappropriate Inappropriate
Talk About the Bookstore Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is visiting a bookstore or responding to a book Bookworm 3
Talk About Weather Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is outdoors Loves the Outdoors 3
Talk to Tummy Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is pregnant Family-Oriented 1
Tell Dirty Joke Funny T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Hilarious STC and are Friends or above or in a romantic relationship Inappropriate, Flirty, Good Sense of Humor
Tell Dramatic Story Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Sims are in the Very Friendly STC or Friendly STC, if Friends or above or in a romantic relationship Charismatic, Schmoozer
Tell Funny Story Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E STC is not too funny Charismatic, Good Sense of Humor
Tell Ghost Story Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is Insane, can tell a ghost story, or is visiting a graveyard Insane, Childish
Tell Inside Joke Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are Good Friends or better Good Sense of Humor 3 3
Tell Intriguing News Story Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is in the Journalism career
Tell Joke Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Sims are in Dull, Drab, Funny or Hilarious STC Charismatic, Good Sense of Humor 4 6
Tell Story Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Before Tell Dramatic Story, but not until Friendly if Acquaintances Charismatic
Teen Insult Insulting T T, Y, A, E Always for teen Mean Spirited Good
Thank Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E General thank Good 1
Thank for Cleaning Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Thank for cleaning Good, Neat 1
Thank for Cooking Friendly C, T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Thank for cooking Good, Natural Cook 1
Thank for Promotion Friendly C, T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Thank for promotion Good, Snob, Workaholic 1
Thank for Tutoring Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Thank for tutoring Good, Genius, Workaholic 1
Toddler Chat Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a toddler Family-Oriented
Toddler Tickle Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a toddler Family-Oriented
Toddler Toss In Air Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is a toddler Family-Oriented
Trade Kitchen Secrets Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor or Target has cooked, Actor has available recipes to learn and Target has Cooking skill (and it's been 1 day since the Target was last asked) Natural Cook 1 3
Train Sim Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Train Sim Athletic
Try for Baby Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are romantic and are in the Hot STC Family-Oriented
Tutor Sim Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T Actor has Logic skill Family-Oriented 1 0
Tutor Sim in Skill Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor wants to teach Target skill
Wedding Congratulations Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target had a wedding Family-Oriented, Friendly, Schmoozer
Watch This Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a Daredevil Daredevil Daredevil
Whine About Broken Computer Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Computer is broken Computer Whiz Technophobe 3 3
Whine About Broken TV Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E TV is broken Couch Potato Technophobe 1
Whine About Plant Dying Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Plant died Green Thumb 1
Whine About Swimming Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Hydrophobic or a Couch Potato and has just been swimming Hydrophobic, Couch Potato Hydrophobic, Couch Potato 1
Whisper in Ear Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are in the Hot STC Flirty, Hopeless Romantic 1
Wooo! Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Party happening Party Animal Party Animal 1 3
WooHoo Amorous Y, A, E Y, A, E Sims are romantic and are in the Hot STC
Worry About Grades Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Can worry about grades Workaholic, Neurotic 1 1
Worry About Money Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Can worry about money Frugal, Neurotic 1
Worry About Relationship Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Can worry about relationship Hopeless Romantic, Neurotic 1
Worry About Work Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Can complain about work Workaholic, Neurotic 1
Worship Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Target is in the Music or Athletic career Easily Impressed 1
Yell At Steamed T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has the Betrayed, Can't Stand Art, Offended, Rude Awakening, Rude Guest, or Stuff Taken buff, or Sims are in the Steamed STC Mean Spirited, Hot-Headed Good 5

World Adventures

Social Commodity Actor Age Target Age Social Available When? Required Trait Social Encouraged By Trait? Social Prevented By Trait? # of Uses
Before Boring
# of Uses if Recharged
Ask Foreign Visitor to Leave Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E While foreign visitor is on lot.
Ask Every Foreign Visitor to Leave Neutral C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E While foreign visitor is on lot.
Ask to Pose Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor wants to take photo. Photographer's Eye
Buy Items from Register Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is inside shop or with merchant.
Challenge to a Ranked Sparring Match Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor and Target are martial artists. Disciplined
Chat Locals Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E While at destination talking to local Target. 2 1
Discuss SLR Cameras Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is into photography. Photographer's Eye Photographer's Eye 2 1
Gossip with Locals Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E While at destination talking to local Target.
Insult Locals Insulting Y, A, E T, Y, A, E While at destination talking to local Target.
Rant about Dark Rooms Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is into photography. Photographer's Eye
Reminisce About Film Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has recently seen movie. 2 1
Sing Song Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has learned local song from a destination. Can't Stand Art
Sing Song Romantic Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has learned romantic song from a destination. Can't Stand Art
Spar Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor and Target are martial artists. Disciplined
Talk About Cameras Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is into photography. Photographer's Eye 2 1
Talk About Egyptian Pantheon Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a mummy. 2 1
Talk About Embalming Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a mummy. 2 1
Talk About Eyeliner Secrets Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a mummy. 2 1
Talk About Sand Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is a mummy. 2 1
Talk About Trip Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has been to at least one destination. 2
Teach Song Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor has learned local song. Target does not know song. Can't Stand Art 3 1
Teach Song Romantic Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has learned romantic song. Target does not know song. Can't Stand Art 3 1
Tell Joke Locals Funny C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E While at destination talking to local Target. Good Sense of Humor

Ambitions

Social Commodity Actor Age Target Age Social Available When? Required Trait Social Encouraged by Trait? Social Prevented by Trait?
Assess Needs as Interior Designer Friendly Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Interior Designer
Blackmail Insulting T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Investigator
Compliment Fashion Sense Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist Photographer's Eye
Compliment Spookiness Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Ghost Hunter
Convince to Move On Neutral Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When target is a ghost Disciplined
Diagnose Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Doctor
Discuss Fashion Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist Photographer's Eye Photographer's Eye
Discuss Local Hauntings Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Ghost Hunter
Discuss Renovation Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E When actor is Interior Designer
Firefighter Flirt Amorous T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor or target is a Firefighter Photographer's Eye
Get Tattoos Removed Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E When target is Stylist
Give Bad Makeover Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist Can't Stand Art
Give Experimental Drugs Neutral T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Doctor Can't Stand Art
Give Fashion Advice Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist Disciplined
Give Follow Up Exam Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Doctor Photographer's Eye
Give Medical Attention Friendly Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Doctor
Insult Fashion Sense Insulting T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist
Makeover Freestyle Neutral T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist
Put At Ease About Loved Ones Neutral Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When target is a ghost
Reject Ugly Client Insulting T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist
Show Off Features Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Stylist Can't Stand Art
Show Off Ghost Gun Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Ghost Hunter Can't Stand Art
Show Off Super Ghost Gun Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Ghost Hunter Good Sense of Humor
Talk About Composting Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Eco-Friendly
Talk About Full Life Neutral Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When target is a ghost
Talk About Going Green Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Eco-Friendly
Talk About Recycling Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Eco-Friendly
Talk About Renewable Energy Friendly C, T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Eco-Friendly
Talk About Sculpting Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is a sculptor
Talk About Sheets Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E Actor is at laundromat
Tell Amazing Ghost Story Friendly Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is Ghost Hunter
Tell Firefighting Story Friendly T, Y, A, E C, T, Y, A, E When actor is a Firefighter
Vaccinate Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E When actor is Doctor
Whine About Life Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor is Dramatic

Late Night

Social Commodity Actor Age Target Age Social Available When?
Social Commodity Actor Age Target Age Social Available When?
Quit Band Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is a menber of a band
Ask To Join Band Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target has at least one point instrument skill
Kick Out Band Member Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is in the band
Thank For Free Drink Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Thank drink-buyer for free beverage at bar
Order A Drink For Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Order a drink for target Sim
Ask for Advice Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is butler
Ask for Massage Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is butler
Ask to Cook Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is butler
Dismiss Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is butler
Fire Insulting Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is butler
Bouncer Ask To Get In Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is bar/club bouncer
Drink Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is vampire
Offer To Turn Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is vampire
Ask To Turn Neutral Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is vampire
Try to Impress Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Impress - Name Drop Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Impress - Talk about Skill Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Impress - Talk about Career Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Impress - Talk about Wealth Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Ask for Autograph Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Take Cell Phone Picture Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Target is celebrity
Talk about Film Career Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor is in Film career
Talk about Mixology Friendly Y, A, E Y, A, E Actor has started developing Mixology skill
Talk about Piano Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has started developing Piano skill
Talk about Bass Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has started developing Bass skill
Talk about Drums Friendly T, Y, A, E T, Y, A, E Actor has started developing Drums skill

Generations

New Social Circumstance Used
New Social Circumstance Used
Admonish Target is poorly behaved, pulled prank
Admonish Child Target is poorly behaved child at day care
Apologize for Snubbing Tell snubbed Sim "sorry"
Ask to Make Toast At bachelor(ette) party
Ask to Remove Costume If target has been wearing a costume for a long time
Ask to Look at Stars Ask a Sim to go look at the stars (on date)
Be Frisky Available after wedding ceremony for a short time
Beg for Forgiveness Ask punishing Sim to release from punishment
Blame Prank on Imaginary Friend Target wants to divert blame from prank
Clean Up for Me (to Imaginary Friend) Ask Imaginary Friend to clean up a mess
Complain about Status Quo Available to Sims with Rebellious trait
Forgive Forgive child, release from punishment
Get Me a Snack (to Imaginary Friend) Ask Imaginary Friend to fetch a quick snack from fridge
Go Play with Others Tell child at day care to play with other kids
Leave Me Alone (to Imaginary Friend) Ask Imaginary Friend to stop following
Peace Sign Salute Sims who attended School of Peace and Love can use as greeting
Pillow Fight Engage in a pillow fight with target Sim
Spray Fizzy Nectar At bachelor(ette) party
Talk about Boarding School Talk to another Sim about boarding school attended
Talk about Imaginary Friend Talk to about Imaginary Friend
Talk about Problems Available to Day Care Specialist with a Problem Child
Talk about Rebelling Available to Sims with Rebellious trait

Pets

Social Name Actor Target Trait
Reinforcement
Interaction Benefits Trait Influences
Affection… Brush CTYAE Sims Cat, Dog None Sim brushes dog or cat. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Hygiene, Brushed moodlet, Loved moodlet. Cat hairball counter resets.
Affection… Brush CTYAE Sims Horses, Foals Obedient/Ornery Sim brushes horse. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Hygiene, Loved moodlet. None
Affection… Feed Treat CTYAE Sims Pets Piggy/Neat Sim pulls out a treat for the pet. Not available on mounted horses. Adds Fun for Sim, LTR, and Hunger for pet. Piggy pets eat sloppily, and have chance to hack or become Nauseous from eating too fast.
Affection… Hug CTYAE Sims Dogs, Cats, Puppies, Kittens None Sim picks up small pet and hugs near face. Large dogs and horses are hugged on the ground. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Loved moodlet. Proud, Independent, or Neat cats may Groom Self afterward.
Affection… Hug CTYAE Sims Horses, Foals Obedient/Ornery Mounted Sim learns forward and hugs horses neck. Unmounted Sim hugs horses neck. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Loved moodlet.
Affection… Pet CTYAE Sims Pets None Sim pets horse on neck (shoulder if mounted), pets or scratches dog or cat's head. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Loved moodlet. None
Affection… Rub Belly CTYAE Sims Dogs None Sim bends down and rubs dog's belly. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Loved moodlet. Hyper dogs have higher chance of leg twitch; Lazy dogs have lower.
Affection… Smoochie CTYAE Sims Puppies, Kittens, Small Dogs, Cats None Sim picks up small pet and kisses on nose. Pet licks Sim's face. Adds Social, LTR. Pet gains Loved moodlet. None
Bark At Dogs CTYAE Sims, Pets Noisy/Quiet Dog approaches Target and barks. Target may respond positively or negatively. Hyper dogs do this more often, Lazy dogs almost never.
Beg/Be Begged Cats, Dogs CTYAE Sims Piggy/Neat Hungry, Very Hungry, or Starving pets with no food available whimper/whine/yowl with thought balloon of food. Sim will feed pet. Piggy pets can do this at any time regardless of hunger level.
Beg for Harvestable Horses CTYAE Sims Piggy/Neat Horse noses Sim and nickers, with thought balloon of carrots. Not available while mounted. Sim will feed pet. Piggy horses are more likely to beg.
Call Pet CTYAE Sims Pets None Sim calls pet. Similar to Call Over interaction between Sims. Lazy and Shy pets take longer to respond. Clueless pets may run past Sim.
Calm Down CTYAE Sims Horses, Foals Brave/Nervous Mounted or unmounted Sim soothes the Panicked! or Spooked! horse. Removes Panicked or Spooked moodlets. Adds LTR. Nervous horses are more likely to have the Panicked! or Spooked! moodlets.
Chase Mailman Dogs NPC Mail Carrier Aggressive/Friendly Dog chases Mail Carrier, who panics and runs off the lot, with mail flying. Adds Fun, reduces Energy for dog. Lowers LTR with Mail Carrier. Aggressive dogs are more likely to chase.
Clean Hooves CTYAE Sims Horses Neat/Piggy Sim cleans horse's hooves. Cannot repeat while moodlet is active. Horse gains positive Hygienic Hooves moodlet. None
Dismount Mounted Sim Horses None Sim dismounts from horse. Ends riding pose. Sim Riding skill level determines whether the dismount is skilled, amateur, or near failure.
Feed… CTYAE Sims Horses None Not available while mounted or with no harvestable or gourmet pet food in inventory. Sim selects harvestable/pet food from picker and feeds to horse. Adds Social, LTR. Fulfills Hunger for horse. Piggy horses always accept, regardless of hunger level.
Go for Walk to… CTYAE Sims Dogs None Sim leashes dog and chooses a valid destination from a window. Pet and Sim walk to destination, with dog sniffing and possibly peeing along the way. Adds Social, LTR None
Groom Cats Cats, Kittens Neat/Piggy Cat licks and grooms other cat or kitten. Actor cat has chance of hairball. Adds Social, LTR, Hygiene. None
Groom Horses Horses Neat/Piggy Horses gently nibble each others' head and neck. Adds Social, LTR, Hygiene. None
Growl At Dogs CTYAE Sims, Pets Aggressive/Friendly Dog approaches Target and growls. Target may respond positively or negatively. Aggressive dogs do this more often; Friendly dogs almost never.
Hiss At Cats CTYAE Sims, Pets Aggressive/Friendly Cat approaches Target and hisses. Target may respond positively or negatively. Lowers LTR. None
Horseplay Horses, Foals Horses, Foals None Horse frolic together. Not available while mounted. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. None
Kick Horses TYAE Sims Ornery/Obedient Horse turns and boots Sim in the chest, knocking him flat. Ornery horses add Fun. Target Sim loses Fun. Lowers LTR. Sim gets the negative Kicked moodlet. Ornery horses do this autonomously and regardless of mood. Lazy and Obedient horse never kick.
Lick Dogs PCTYAE Sims Friendly/Aggressive Dog licks Sim. Add Social, LTR, Fun (for pet), Hygiene (for Sim) Piggy pets give slobbery kisses.
Mean… Chase Cats, Dogs, Kittens, Puppies CTYAE Sims, Cats, Dogs, Kittens, Puppies Aggressive/Friendly Dog or cat chases Target. Lowers Energy and LTR. Aggressive dogs and cats do this more often; Shy, Skittish, and Friendly dogs and cats do it less often.
Mean… Fight Cats, Dogs Cats, Dogs Aggressive/Friendly Pets enter fight cloud and one emerges victorious. Outcome depends on Hunting skill (+), Hunter (+), Aggressive (+), Friendly (-), Scaredy-Cat (-). Adds Scratch (for cats), lowers LTR and Energy. Friendly and Scaredy Cat pets will not initiate.
Mean… Pounce Cat, Kitten Cat Hunting Cat stalks and pounces on other cat. Ends in fight. Lowers Fun, LTR, Energy; adds Hunting skill.
Mount TYAE Sims Horses Obedient/Ornery Not available on foals or ridden, led, or pregnant horses. Allowed on non-household horse with permission. Sim mounts horse. Initiates riding pose. Adds LTR. Sim's Riding skill determines whether the result is skilled, amateur, or near failure.
Nuzzle Pets CTYAE Sims, Pets* Friendly/Aggressive Pet nuzzles affectionately Adds Social and strongly adds LTR. None
Pick Up CTYAE Sims Kittens, Puppies, Cats, Small Dogs None Sim picks up pet and carries it around. Can do various interactions while holding pet. Adds LTR. None
Play Cats, Dogs, Kittens, Puppies Cats, Dogs, Kittens, Puppies Playful Pets play with each other. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. None
Play with Me Cats, Dogs, Kittens, Puppies CTYAE Sims Playful This initiates other socials, or indicates that the pet wants attention. None None
Play… Chase Cats, Kittens, Dogs, Puppies CTYAE Sims, Cats, Kittens, Dogs, Puppies Hyper/Lazy Pets and Sims chase each other around. Sims laugh. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. Hyper pets do this more often. Lazy pets never initiate and always refuse it.
Play… Chase Horses Horses, Foals None Horses chase each other around. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. Lazy horses never initiate and always refuse it.
Play… Fetch CTYAE Sims Dogs None Sim waves a stick, throws it, dog fetches. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. Loses Energy. Intelligent and Aggressive dogs sometimes jump and catch the stick in their mouth. Hyper pets do this more often; Lazy pets don't initiate and may wander away during.
Play… Have Fun CTYAE Sims Dogs, Cats None Sim pulls out squeaky toy (dogs) or laser pointer (cats) and plays with pet. Other Sims may watch. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. None
Play… Tug of War CTYAE Sims Dogs, Puppies None Sim produces rope toy and dog grabs in mouth, yanking and tugging. Adds Social, Fun, LTR. Loses Energy. Hyper pets do this more often. Lazy pets never initiate it.
Play… Pounce Cat, Kitten Cat Hunting Cat stalks and pounces on other cat. Ends in play. Adds Social, Fun, LTR, and Hunting skill. Loses Energy. None
Praise CTYAE Sims Dogs, Cats, Horses All Sim praises pet for desired behavior. Positively reinforces behavior. Adds LTR, pet gains Praised moodlet. None
Romance… Try for Kittens Cat Cat None Cats must be opposite gender, certain LTR, and not related. Requires pet house. Chance of pregnancy. Never autonomous. Strongly adds Fun and Social. Loses energy. None
Romance… Try for Puppies Dog Dog None Dogs must be opposite gender, certain LTR, and not related. Requires pet house. Chance of pregnancy. Never autonomous. Strongly adds Fun and Social. Loses energy. None
Romance… Try for Foal Horse Horse None Horses must be opposite gender, certain LTR, and not related. Requires box stall. Chance of pregnancy. Never autonomous. Strongly adds Fun and Social. Loses energy.
Scold CTYAE Sims Dogs, Cats, Horses All Sim scolds pet for undesired behavior. Negatively reinforces behavior. Pet gains Scolded moodlet. None
Shoo Off CTYAE Sims Dogs, Cats Adventurous/Skittish Sim shoos pet off surface. None Mean, Evil, and Grumpy Sims are more likely to do this.
Sniff Pets CTYAE Sims, Pets None Pet sniffs other pet or Sim. Pets above LTR threshold will react positively. Adds Social and LTR. None
Socialize Pets Pets Friendly/Aggressive Pets approach each other and make social noises. Adds Social, LTR. None
Stamp At Horses CTYAE Sims, Pets Aggressive/Friendly Horse approaches Target and snorts and stamps at. Lowers LTR. Brave or Equestrian Sims more likely to scold; Coward Sims more likely to cower. Aggressive pets more likely to growl, hiss, or stamp; Friendly pets more likely to cower.
Tackle Kitten, Puppy, Cat, Small Dog CTYAE Sims Aggressive/Friendly Pet runs and jumps at Sim. Seriously fun for pets. Lazy pets will not do this. Hyper, Aggressive, Playful, and Hunter pets are more likely to do this; Friendly and Shy pets less likely.
Talk To CTYAE Sims Pets None Sim makes baby talk at pet. Adds Social, LTR, Fun (for Sim). Noisy pets are more likely to vocalize back; Quiet pets are less likely.
Throw Scrap TYAE Sims Dogs, Cats, Kittens, Puppies None While cooking, Sim throws scrap of food to watching pet. Adds LTR. Fulfills Hunger (pet) None
Watch Cooking Dogs, Cats, Kittens, Puppies TYAE Sims Piggy/Neat Pet watches Sim cooking, begs for food. Adds LTR.
Whisper to… TYAE Sims Foal, Horse None Sim gently approaches horse, and speaks softly while stroking horse's face. Adds Social, strongly adds LTR. Requires Sim Riding skill 10